Wednesday 2 February 2011

Gold, frankincense, myrhh and socks

I was in the middle of putting on some socks this morning. I was 'half-stockinged' or 'semi-stockinged' if we talk in terms of stockinged feet. To be more specific, I stopped at stockinged toes and balls, where we are talking about the 'balls of the feet'. A thought struck me. I was putting on socks without a clear strategy.

My grandmother was coming round to my place and I'd be in my socks. I would not be wearing shoes because I was at home and you don't wear shoes indoors before you've gone out, though there is a period of time you can walk around at home in your shoes just before you go out. Very few people get out of bed and stick their shoes on straight away and if it was more people that did, they shouldn't. You're putting out a message when you wear socks. To your gran, you're saying 'You I recognise as a relentless and seasoned and proven sock donor. You see me now wearing these socks you bought me earlier and you make a value judgement that I am wearing these above any of the other pairs I have received from you because I have a preference for beige acrylic'. Wear your best socks in front of your granny. Inform. Sow the seeds.

Gold, frankincense and myrhh were all good gifts to get for Christmas in the Middle East around 0AD or 0BC depending on whether you stopped counting Before Christ years in 1BC. But not socks. Not with sandals. Gold has to be a bit special though. I would rather get vouchers than frankinense or myrhh. Gold is a bit on the pricey side though. Your parents would say 'If you want gold it'll have to be your Christmas and birthday present'. But you would take that above any other gift offer because you get the gold for Christmas and when it comes to your birthday your parents always go, 'Oh we can't  just give him nothing on his birthday. He won't have anything to unwrap'.

Sunday 30 January 2011

Five a day? make it 5 a decade in Greenland

How are you supposed to get your five a day in Greenland? You try growing a brussel sprout just outside Nuuk (the capital, for those who don't know and don't know how to use Wikipedia), or a radish, if you prefer. Go to a vegetarian restaurant in Nuuk and the waiter says, 'But you're quite welcome to come in and sit down if you like'. In Greenland, five a decade is more hopeful.

If you have say seven one day, can you carry two over and have just three the following day? If not, and you fancy seven one day like you know when you have a craving (usually a craving will be for something more specific like fish and chips, but this time round it's awh, do you know what I fancy? I fancy seven), you could have your five then stay up till midnight and just after pop another couple. Technically those two will count in the next day's quota but psychologically you've done it - you've had your seven.

Sunday 23 January 2011

When the cat's at home...

I wanted to get some time to myself. The missus said one of her workmates has a kitten. An opportunity, I thought. How it represented an opportunity was something I could think about after that thought.

Then the missus added that her workmate had invited us all round to see the kitten, to show to our daughter. We would have to arrange a visit the missus said. Not really, I said. You could just turn up and if she's not in, break a window to gain entry. I'm sure it would be OK. It's not like the kitten's going anywhere. They have to stay in before they get all their injections. Anyone who's watched Animal Hospital with Rolf Harris knows that, especially Rolf Harris if he remembers that episode and he was listening properly while he was doing the interview. If the workmate then comes back and doesn't like the smashed window side of things you could just get the right side of her again by saying 'oh, you have a very nice kitten. Very nice, actually (reinforce the message - the 'actually' bit tagged on sounds like you're qualifying the remark)' - even if you don't mean it and you hate it.

Trouble is, though, the missus rings up the workmate anyway and the workmate says she's ill. She's really sorry, but she doesn't want to pass on her flu to our daughter. I said ring her up again, say you've thought about what she said about being ill and everything that that entails, so you should get yourself down the hospital. Get yourself checked out. You're then expressing compassion and asking, while she's out, for her to leave the key under the mat.

Wednesday 19 January 2011

We suffered two days without hot water in the kitchen. Turn the hot water tap - nothing. Water coming out the cold tap, but that's still half a drought (you do the math) we've endured.

I didn't see an episode of Ray Bears where he showed you how to wash up in the Tundra. Or I may have missed it. Fingers numb from rinsing dishes before washing them up in a bowl of boiled kettle water mixed with water from the cold water tap. This is what it must have been like for Scott of the Arctic when he washed up except he probably didn't have a kettle.

These are the sort of entries Scott would write in his diary:

'Washed up today. Couldn't feel fingers afterwards. Dogs are restless.'

'Morale higher than it has been for a long time now. Dried up today.'

Friday 14 January 2011

Read 'Damp Sleeve' for 'Damp Squib'

One of the things we are presently putting up with at this stage of human development is the one sleeve or one leg of clothing somehow turning itself inside out in the machine wash.

At some point during the washing cycle one arm, for example, will often go against the grain of the shirt's natural demeanour. Can we fight our natural instincts to right it and hang it up to dry as is? I don't feel we can, nor do I feel we should. It's lightly disturbing to see a top performing contortions on the radiator or clothes horse. It doesn't look right. It niggles us mutely like an inside-out dog's ear. It says 'you have to do something about this'. But that's not the end of it. The twisted arm gathers material around the armpit, material that doesn't stand a cat in hell's chance of drying at the same rate as the rest of the top. And cats don't get many chances in hell. The arm (or leg) has to be righted. Denial (like failure) is not an option. But here, finally, is the rub, the nub of the situation. 'Righting' involves having to reach inside the soggy errant sleeve and pull it back out. And that means getting the arm of the top you're wearing soggy. And you have to live with a slightly damp arm from then on until it dries or you change it for another top.

My partner tells me that I should check that my long johns legs aren't inside out when I throw them in the dirty washing basket. I shall endeavour to do this, but still check whether the washing machine is responsible for this inside-outing phenomenon.

Sunday 9 January 2011

Keyboard-Dusting Block

Keyboard dusting is an activity which removes the dust that collects between the keys of your computer's keyboard. A little-known writer's affliction has to be 'Keyboard-dusters' block' caused by the active process of writing.

Tuesday 4 January 2011

Chopsticks

The thing about inhabiting a small dwelling, in our case, a flat, is that you have very little storage space. You're forced to think about storage space. The middle classes don't with their town houses they were helped to buy by Location, Location, Education (Why do the presenters have to help people with budgets? They've already got money why can't they suffer the ennui of looking for somewhere to live with no money?) They have loft spaces they can store trinkets they can take to Antiques Roadshow and say oh, I don't suppose it's worth very much, it's just been gathering dust in our attic, knowing full well that there's every chance their crockery belongs to a Ming Dynasty.

In the smaller dwelling we have to have a conversation with our missus about 'we don't really need that, do we? It's only taking up space.' I have a pair of chopsticks in the kitchen drawer. That's a good start because if they were in a cabinet in the lounge, they'd be immediately behaving like they're out of place. That's where you shove elastic bands, buttons and coins of a currency that has now become defunct. Why do you keep chopsticks? asks your partner. We're going to discuss this because by losing them we will gain space equal to the volume of Chinese chopsticks. 'You don't even like Chinese food', she says. 'I didn't say that'. 'You did. You always say you don't like Chinese food'. 'I didn't say I didn't like Chinese food. I just don't like the way they cook it'.

Chopsticks are always handy (and 'handiness' is the quality you want to bestow an object that's threatened with eviction) when you step in dog shit and it squelches and compacts in the tread of your trainers. Then you get rid of them or at least you should.